What to do when someone triggers you

Allow me the indulgence on this rainy Sunday morning to tell you about one of my most powerful partnerships with the woman that triggered the fuck out me.

This woman came into my life with the physical attributes of a woman I'd seen in my visions years ago. The woman in my vision had long white hair that graced her face with gentleness and within her the wisdom of a thousand ancestors distilled into one.

 I decided that was my future self. 

Until SHE came into the picture.

(cue classic Hitchcock Psycho tune eeh, eeh, eeh, eeh, 🔪)

Meet Franca.

Her liminal artwork with collages that brought together the here+now, and the beyond into one impactful sacred work triggered me. 

I want to do that!

Her perfect white long hair massively triggered me.

Hey! That's my thing! 

Her laser-focused insights with cosmic channelled words and it-will-blow-your-mind 

guidance - REALLY REALLY triggered me. 

How does she do that!?

And she speaks with such a cool British/ Italian/ Argentinian accent and has the best ring collection ever.

Gah! Who is this woman!? 

There was only one thing to do here. Can you guess?

I decided I didn't like her very much. I tried anyway.

Trouble was she's really fucking cool. Says it like it is, she's funny and also loves Negronis.

Great. Now what?

Over the years I've gotten to know this luminous woman - Franca - meaning HONESTY in Spanish, and here's the honest truth. She has been the best mirror for my blindspots, for my own fears, gifts and desires. And I bet you have someone like that in your life too. In fact, feel free to REPLY to this email and tell me about them in whatever capacity feels good to you. 

The moment you admit it is the moment you begin to walk back to that part of you you've been rejecting and hiding.

 Dear Goddess, can you accept her?

Franca and I, both know what this process looks like and feels like and it's scary. And it can also be joyful, playful and grounded. Here's your invitation to get really honest with yourself. 

Can you do that?

Let’s connect if you want to be unshakable in your vision, mission and purpose in life

In joy + power,

Caro

P.S You're allowed to live a frivolous life in service to your higher self, your desires and your dreams. 

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